Dear Rick,

First of all, I’m a good guy. I’m almost 50 and was married and divorced when I was very young. Somewhere along the line I started dating a crazy woman and have been on and off with her for over 12 years!? Every time I break up with her, she finds a way to see me again and I just fall under her spell. Yes, we have great passionate sex and she really knows how to push all my buttons. Sometimes I think I’m lazy because the sex is so good and so easy. But she is not good for me. She drains my assets and doesn’t like me to see my family or friends. We really don’t have much in common but no woman has ever come close to turning me on the way she does.? What can I do to break this spell she has on me?

Mike G. -Chicago