Beware of Old Information

My father-in-law was having a hard time seeing from one eye. During the visit to an eye doctor, he was told that his retina was almost completely detached and he needed to see a specialist immediately. After making an appointment for the next morning, he headed home. As soon as he settled back into his den, he did what all of us would do; he searched for more information about his condition.

Being more “old school”, he went to the bookshelf and pulled out a ten year old copy of “Merks Medical Guide”. Finding “detached retina” in the index, he went to the article and was shocked to read he was certainly going to be permanently blind in one eye!  He hardly slept that night.  The next morning, the eye specialist agreed that it was bad.  But he was confident that a fairly new surgical process would have a high chance of a positive outcome.  Surgery was scheduled for that afternoon and my father-in-law was home soon afterward.  He brought home a brochure describing the procedure.  I read through the brochure and was amazed at this Science Fiction type medical procedure.

The eye patch was removed the next day and his vision was as good as it was before all this started!  Not only that, there was no extensive healing time.  A miracle!  Impossible according to the ten year old medical guide.

The point of this post is simple:  We live in a world that is constantly changing; basing a decision on old information could easily cause you to make a very bad decision.    Rick

Update:  In light of recent events and the proliferation of “fake news”, we not only need to make sure our information is current but that it is true!  This can be a difficult task.  We all tend to listen to news outlets, celebrities and politicians that spout “information” with which we agree.  That does not mean it is true.  Fox News admits that it is an entertainment show, not a truthful news outlet.  The same is true of the late night show hosts; they are stand-up comedians making fun of current events.  Before you form an opinion based on any news event, double check the facts. Don’t rely on just one or two sources for facts and recognize that any opinion is just that, an opinion.  Statistics and polls can easily be manipulated or “spun.”  Be wary of anything that sounds outrageous or even slightly “off”.  In other words, think for yourself and don’t fall into any “tribe” mentality.  Here is a simple non-political example:  Remember the old “Pepsi taste test” commercials?  First problem:  only people who preferred CocaCola were chosen to participate in the blind taste test.  They were asked to taste unmarked samples of Pepsi and Coke and state which they preferred.  Since there is not a huge difference in the taste of the two colas, not everyone was going to pick the Coca Cola sample.  So, if three of the ten people who said they preferred Coke actually picked the Pepsi sample, the shouted conclusion was, “Thirty percent of CocaCola drinkers actually prefer Pepsi!”  I hope you see the flaws in this taste test.  The exact opposite conclusion would have been made if they started with people who said they preferred Pepsi.     Note: this may not have been exactly how the “taste test” was run.  It is just my re-creation to make a point.

Some fact checking sites:

https://www.snopes.com/

https://www.factcheck.org/

http://www.politifact.com/

The Christian Science Monitor is known for avoiding sensationalism, presenting a more objective and informative coverage of newsworthy events. https://www.csmonitor.com/

Some major newspapers are accused of both, being too liberal and being too conservative.  To me, that means they are at least trying to be unbiased.  Anyone with an opinion is biased.  My only advice is to try to gather and verify as many current facts as possible before cementing your opinion.  If you listen to and read the same “news” sources for years, you are letting someone else form your opinions.  If there are extreme right and left-wing opinions about the same actual facts, you can be sure that the “truth” lies somewhere in between.

 

The Healthy Dozen “Super Foods”

We all have in mind what we think are “healthy” foods. If you are reading this, you probably know what foods are “bad” for your body. I try to convince myself that I’m safe if I follow the idea of “All things in moderation” especially when I’m looking at a tub of my favorite Blue Bell ice cream. I found myself hesitating to list what I thought were healthy foods so I looked at what the experts eat. Here is a peak into the favorite foods of professional Registered Dietitians and nutritionists.

Hummus
“This is every nutritionist’s ‘convenience food.’ In just a quarter cup, you get fiber, protein, carbohydrates, and healthy fat from the olive oil.” —Jennifer McDaniel, a registered dietitian nutritionist in St. Louis and an Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics spokesperson

Cinnamon
“This is one of those powerhouse spices every R.D. tries to work into his/her diet. Research shows that just half a teaspoon a day can help regulate blood sugar—and when our blood sugar drops, we feel hungry, so cinnamon can curb your appetite. I add a teaspoon to my coffee beans before I grind them; it infuses my coffee with flavor and health benefits.” —Jennifer McDaniel
See Rick’s article on cinnamon here: https://midlifehelp.com/cinnamon/

Dark Berries
“A bowl of berries is what most nutritionists have when they’re craving something sweet. Berries are jam-packed with fiber, vitamins, and antioxidants—crucial for aging well. We favor super-dark berries, like blueberries and blackberries, because they have the highest doses of those powerful antioxidants.” —Keri Glassman, a dietitian in New York City and author of The New You and Improved Diet

Almond Milk
“No matter what we think about dairy, most of us agree that it’s too easy to overdo. Yogurt, cheese—even that whey protein in an energy bar is dairy. It sneaks into more than you might expect. That’s why R.D.’s love unsweetened almond milk. It has a consistency similar to cow’s milk but half the calories—and you still get vitamin E. I love using almond milk in smoothies, and I also swap it for milk when I make oatmeal and pudding.” —Carolyn Brown

Avocados
“Every dietitian I know agrees that avocados are a must-eat food. They are a great source of healthy fats, which help fill you up so you’ll be less likely to want a snack later on. Plus, they taste really decadent. I love putting avocado slices on my salad; research shows that it helps your body absorb nutrients. And they are the perfect food if you’re on the go. When I fly, I stash an avocado in my carry-on. I cut it in half, sprinkle on a little salt and pepper, grab a few crackers, and I’ve got a perfect plane snack.” —Carolyn Brown, , a registered dietitian at Foodtrainers in New York City

Greek yogurt
“Dietitians are a little obsessed with Greek yogurt, but for good reason: It’s got two times the protein and less sugar than regular yogurt; it’s filled with probiotics, which help keep your immune system strong; and it’s lower in lactose than other dairy—great for someone with lactose intolerance.” —Kate Geagan, a dietitian in Park City, UT, and author of Go Green, Get Lean

Eggs
“You’ll find a carton of eggs in any R.D.’s fridge, including mine. Eggs have gotten a bad rap due to their cholesterol content, but research shows there’s limited evidence linking egg consumption and heart disease. Plus, this protein-rich food has 70 calories, 13 vitamins and minerals, and the anti-inflammatory nutrient choline, which most Americans need.” —Jennifer McDaniel

Extra-virgin olive oil
“Dietitians love it when good taste, nutrition, and health meet—and extra-virgin olive oil is a triple win. It’s teeming with antioxidants and good-for-you mono unsaturated fats, and it’s delicious. I always buy it in a dark-colored bottle; light can oxidize the oil, minimizing some of the health benefits.” —Kate Geagan (NOT FOR COOKING)

Nuts
“Too many of my clients steer clear of nuts because they’re high in fat, but dietitians eat them because we know that monounsaturated fat, in moderation, can help you maintain your weight or even lose. Almonds and walnuts are my favorites. They satisfy a crunchy craving, and the fat-fiber combo fills me up. Nuts are also loaded with protein, antioxidants, and a variety of vitamins and minerals.” —Keri Glassman

Kale
“If there’s one veggie that every nutritionist across the country eats and recommends, it’s kale. That’s because the leafy green is so nutrient-dense. It’s loaded with vitamins K, A, and C, fiber, and calcium. And it’s packed with so many cancer-preventative antioxidants and anti-inflammatory nutrients. My favorite way to eat more is making kale chips, a total party favorite and kid pleaser. Just rip up the kale, massage a little olive oil into the leaves, and bake at 375°F for 10 to 15 minutes. They’re as good as potato chips!” —Carolyn Brown

Quinoa
“Most nutritionists reach for this grain over brown rice or wheat pasta because it’s a complete source of protein, which means it has all the essential amino acids your body needs. It also contains more fiber than most grains, with five grams in every cup. And it gets better: Quinoa is packed with plant-based omega-3 fatty acids, which makes it a great way to get those anti-inflammatory fats in your diet.” —Jennifer McDaniel

Water with lemon
“A lot of my dietitian friends start their day by drinking water with lemon, and it’s my morning ritual as well. Unless you’re eating mostly whole, plant-based foods, the pH balance in your digestive system is probably on the acidic side. Lemon is very alkaline** and helps bring the body back to an ideal balance, which is important for overall health. Plus, downing a big glass of water right after you wake up is a great way to get your digestive system moving.” —Carolyn Brown
Notes:
* For the full lemon water benefits: pure filtered water and lemon creates the ultimate water to start or end the day! The trick however, is to have the water lukewarm. If the water is too hot or too cold then it will cause the body to expand energy in order to process it. Lukewarm water also has that comforting feeling to it…especially on a cold morning! – Ross Bridgeford
** Obviously, lemons contain acidic acid but it is not the relative acidity/alkalinity of the food but rather the effect it has on the body that is important. Seemingly acidic foods such as lemons, limes and tomato are acidic in their basic state, but once metabolized by the body have an alkalising effect. The high alkaline mineral content of these foods means that once consumed and metabolized they increase the alkalinity of the cells of the body. On the other hand, because of the sugar content, an orange stays acidic and has an acidic effect on your body.
***Do not leave the lemon in lemon water. If you are going to drink the water right away by all means leave it in, but if you are making up a batch for later, the water can easily get too lemon-y if you leave in the squeezed lemon chunks and more importantly, unless you have REALLY washed the lemons or have bought organic, pesticides and chemicals could leach out of the rind and into your water if they are left soaking for too long, losing the lemon water benefits.

Maybe there are no surprises in here for you but I think it is always good to review our daily habits and eating is certainly a habit that has a huge effect on our physical and mental health. If you are gulping down carbonated sodas and vending machine snacks every day, you might want to give lemon water and nuts or kale chips a shot. A small change in eating habits can make a big improvement in the way you feel.

You Used to Laugh

Health Tip #19  Laugh

People who laugh for approximately 15 minutes a day tend to live
longer, healthier, and happy lives. It can also help you loose up to 4 pounds a year; isn’t’ that a laugh?

Can you be in pain and still have a genuine laugh?  Of course you can.

Can you complain about everything around you, always see the negative and reject everything and everyone who is a little different and still have a genuine laugh?  Probably not.  Living takes a toll from everyone but there is no reason you need to volunteer more.  Being the stoic “old curmudgeon” doesn’t attract good will from anyone.  If you haven’t laughed in a while, start with a smile and a chuckle (you don’t want to scare your friends and family).  If you can’t muster up a big belly laugh, find some visual aids.  Johny Carson monologues, The Three Stooges, and funny movie clips are available in YouTube and on video DVDs.

Call up an old friend or play with puppies, children or circus clowns, whatever it takes to bring out the contagious laughter that has been hiding inside you.

This is your second adult life.  At mid-life, you could live at least another forty years.  Try your best to fill it with laughter.
Rick

West Nile Virus – Be Aware

If you have elderly parents or are over 50, pay attention.No Mosquitoes

This is not my normal type of post. We get bombarded by so many conspiracy theories and so much bad news that many of us just tune it out.

According to the CDC, the chance that any one person is going to become ill from a single mosquito bite remains low.

However, the risk of severe illness and death is highest for people over 50 years old.

If you haven’t heard, there has been a major outbreak of the West Nile Virus.  So just take a few minutes to check around your house and those of your elderly loved ones.

The object is to avoid mosquito bites!

  • TAKE EXTRA CARE FROM DUSK TO DAWN, THE PEAK MOSQUITO BITING TIME.
  • USE INSECT REPELLANT AND PROTECTIVE CLOTHING IF YOU MUST BE OUTSIDE
  • DRAIN STANDING WATER
  • INSTALL OR REPLACE SCREENS
  • REPORT DEAD BIRDS TO LOCAL AUTHORITIES

This is just a “heads up” to be aware.  If you need more information, just enter “West Nile Virus” in the GOOGLE search box and you will find more than you ever wanted to know. 🙂

Rick

 

Happy People Feel In Control

If I Ask for Your Help, Do You Say Yes?I can't say no.

Are you the one who can always be depended upon to help out?

  • Chair the committee? Okay.
  • House sit for your neighbor? Okay.
  • Teach the class? Okay.
  • Walk my dog? Raise the money? Get the coffee? Clean up the mess? Plan the convention? Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes!

Tired? Exhausted? Not Enough Time in Your Day?

Do you see a connection here? Psychologist, Harriet Braiker likes to call it, “The disease to please”.  She feels it is a form of addiction.  Just as a drug addict seeks drugs, a people pleaser seeks approval.  If you disagree or even agree with her but have “hit bottom” and want to end this addiction, I have an exercise you can’t pass up.

Do You Want to Feel a Thrill?

Come on, I know you do. Try this…The next time someone asks you to do something that you would really rather not do, just say “No” and walk away! No apologies, no reasons, just “No”, turn and walk away; the “asker” will be so stunned, it will take a second for him to respond and by that time, you should be out the door. (Just like a movie moment)
Skip right over “feeling normal” and jump to “feeling happy” for the first time in a long while. You know why? Studies show that the majority of people who are genuinely happy feel like they have significant control of their lives. As a natural “caregiver” and “people-pleaser”, you constantly accept responsibility for cleaning up after others and helping them through their problems. But as soon as their problems become your problems, you have lost control of another chunk of your most valuable asset, your time. This is a depreciating asset, once it is gone, you can never get it back. One of the ways to take control of your time asset is to stop giving it away so easily.

Take Control of Your Time and Your Happiness! This should be at the top of your “To-Do List.Protect your precious time

Take Control; Be Happy! And let me know how good it feels.

Rick

Anti-Aging

The Four Anti-Aging Tips You May have Missed

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Clones and nanobots may not be here in time to stop the effects of aging that we are all starting to feel. The only real fountain of youth we have is the information about slowing the aging process. You ought to know by now that we are all different. Even though extreme regimens work for a few people, I like the idea of moderation in good health programs.

1) Assuming you are not abusing your body with drugs, excessive alcohol or smoking, it is time to actually think about what you are feeding yourself. Fruits and vegetables need to be a bigger part of that and sugar needs to be less. You don’t have to become a vegan or never eat a cookie again. Just be aware of what you eat and if you are overweight, start to replace those excessive calories with more whole vegetables and less sweets.

2) You knew exercise was next, didn’t you? You don’t have to join a gym or run a marathon but you must exercise enough to maintain a healthy heart and lungs. Find any pleasant physical activity that you can do several times a week. If you are out of shape, it may be uncomfortable for a while but that extra oxygen and blood circulation alone will start turning back the clock. Attitude plays a big part in the appearance of aging.

3) You feel old when you look old so make sure you think young. Wear sunscreen, moisturize your skin, make sure you are well groomed and don’t start wearing shabby clothes just because they are comfortable.  Be aware of what young people are watching at the movies, listening to on the radio or playing on their computers. Be open-minded and cheerful even when you don’t feel like it. Nobody like a whiner or an old grouch.

4) If you are the competitive type, you need to continue to play and compete, not for the thrill of victory but the shear joy of being able to play. Playing is winning now. Enjoy yourself. You are in your “Second Adult Life”, something the average person didn’t have 100 years ago. Attitude again, consider it a “second chance”.  Make the most of it by using this information in your daily life. You might make your senior years the best years of your life.
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Rick

 

Arthritis Pain Management

Many of us have noticed a never before felt pain or two that we would like to ignore.  The one thing that all arthritis sufferers have in common is PAIN.  There is no cure for arthritis but educating yourself and creating a personalized plan to deal with it can prevent this disease from taking over your life.  I have put together a 57 page FREE report that will give you some insight on dealing with arthritis.  Grab your FREE copy now at:

http://www.arthritisroadmap.com

Rick

Cinnamon

“Advice of medical specialists should be considered before trying cinnamon supplements and other forms of alternative medicine. Side effects and interaction with other drugs may take place.”

Confession

For a long-time, a shortcut breakfast for me consisted of toast with a heavy coating of peanut butter.  It was fast and always held me over ’til lunch.  (I am NOT recommending peanut butter to anyone).  As I got older, I noticed that even after brushing my teeth, I might have “peanut butter breath”.  And then, my wife hears that cinnamon lowers bad cholesterol so she started adding  a 1/4 teaspoonful of cinnamon to her applesauce.  She had a big container of cinnamon sitting on the countertop so one day I sprinkled some on my toast.  Voila! No more burping peanut butter or peanut butter breath.  I decided to look up the benefits of cinnamon which appears to be quite a list.  Add a little honey and the list of claimed benefits grows even longer.

This spice is now being heralded in the long line of herbal medicine wonders.  It’s benefits may include:

Lowering LDL cholesterol

Regulatory effect on blood sugar (great for people with Type 2 diabetes)

Ability to stop medication-resistant yeast infections

Anti-clotting effect on the blood

Relief in arthritis pain

Fights the E. coli bacteria in unpasteurized juices

Curbs cravings

Supports digestive function

Relieves congestion

Constricts and tones tissues

Boosts brain function by boosting cognitive function and memory

Relieves menstrual discomfort

Improves circulation by thinning blood

Provides calcium and fiber protect against heart disease

Improves colon health, by removing bile salts from the body

Prevents urinary tract infections and irritable bowel syndrome

Helps address tooth decay and gum disease

Now you noticed that the beginning of this list said “benefits MAY include”… I saw mention of several studies and lots of undocumented claims.  As a non-medical specialist and a natural skeptic, I don’t see how many of these claims could be true.  However, it seems generally accepted that cinnamon contains manganese, fiber, iron and calcium.  If I had high LDL (bad) cholesterol, Type 2 diabetes or peanut butter breath, I’d be eating more cinnamon right now.  If I had any of the other problems in the list above, I would be doing more research on the studies of that illness and cinnamon.  I saw a reference that might be relevant to many of us Baby Boomers:

In a study at Copenhagen University, patients given half a teaspoon of cinnamon powder combined with one tablespoon of honey every morning before breakfast had significant relief in arthritis pain after one week and could walk without pain within one month.  (This could be the result of the anti-clotting properties that makes cinnamon and “anti-inflammatory food”)

Warning:  Do not inhale cinnamon dust.  It irritates the airway, which could trigger a bronchospasm and stop your breathing.  And of course check with your doctor before trying any dietary supplement.

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Rick

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Women Over 40 – The No. 1 Way To Improve The Years To Come

We all have made compromises to create a “comfortable” life for ourselves.  Will you settle for “comfortable” in your Second Adult Life?You have worked hard for many years, perhaps raised a family, built a career or both. Your life has become fairly routine. Whether this is good or bad, you have recently begun to realize that you may live another thirty to fifty years or more. That is another entire adult life! The next thought that crosses many minds is, “I can’t go through all this again.”

So what does it take to get out of a rut and make the coming years the very best of your life?

YOU MUST MAKE TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF YOUR TOP PRIORITY.

There seems to be a lot of resistance to this concept. Women have sacrificed their well being “for the sake of their spouse, their children, their parents and even their career or their company.” For whatever reason, many women never realized that they could have “served” everyone around them even better if they had taken care of their own needs first. There is a good reason that the airlines say, “put your emergency oxygen mask on first, before helping anyone else.”

Trying to convince the doubters of this concept takes more words than I have today. So I’m going to concentrate on the one area that almost all agree. “The freedoms and comforts available from having money will help me live a happier, healthier and more fulfilling “second adult life.”

Money is just a tool; a way to make bartering easier. It has no qualities of good or evil. The sole purpose of collecting it now is to help you take care of yourself in the future and make it easier for you to share the very best of yourself with the rest of the world.

So what steps can you take now to ensure this future happiness?

• Personal Savings – You must have a place to accumulate money.

• Retirement Fund – An IRA or 401K or other plan if you work outside the home

• Savings Mindset – “Sock-It-Away” either by habit or auto-withdraw

• Question spending – Do you really need a new __________?

• Avoid & Eliminate Debt – The future is unpredictable but “Cash is always king”

• Avoid having to say, “No” by not telling your friends and relatives about your nest egg.

There are hundreds of excuses not to save. Eliminate them from your mind and replace them with ways and reasons to save. Use your positive thoughts to find ways to add to your account. If it helps, make it a game and add some incentives. Calculate how much the ten dollars you deposited this week will be worth in twenty years. If you want singing lessons, your own apartment, a trip to Tahiti, imagine what that will be like. Remember, this is not a savings account for auto repairs or a birthday gift for your spouse or bail for your sad-sack brother. This is for your future.

Where to save. You want your “pot of gold” to be safe, earn interest if possible and not so easily accessible that you are tempted to dip into it for daily living expenses. Online banks can offer such a place but do your homework and avoid any “hidden” fees, minimum deposits or charges for holding your money. Don’t look for just the highest interest rate. Unless you have a substantial initial deposit, fees and charges can be a lot more that any interest income you might make. Ask questions; call the institution and tell them what you plan to deposit and how you plan to add to it. Specifically ask if there will be any charges or fees. Take notes on each institution you call including who you talk with and when. If you have a few thousand dollars to start with or you have an IRA, you can open multiple accounts with an online broker like E*Trade who will recognize your brokerage account, retirement account, savings and checking accounts as one balance, making it easier to eliminate minimum fees and monthly charges.

You can do this and should DO IT NOW! I’ll let you come up with more reasons to save for your better future years. Here are some ideas for finding and making more deposits to your savings:

• The coins collecting dust around the house

• Cash rebates from product purchases

• Cash birthday or Christmas gifts

• Make sure to use employer matching funds to your retirement account if available

• Automatic deposits from your pay check

• Every time you choose to “brown bag it” instead of eating out, put aside $5 for a deposit

• Sell any “junk” that has been in your storage area for years.

When you start feeling good about doing this for your future you may be ready to start doing more things for yourself. In the years to come, you can keep growing as a productive, happy individual, benefiting everyone around you. If this is a new idea for you, it may take some time to sink in but it is true. It is time to take care of yourself. Remember the oxygen mask…

I’m here to inform and encourage.

Rick Perkins